Meetings & Events
Connect with Community
PFLAG Stillwater’s Meetings & Events are open to everyone. Whether you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, a parent or family member, an ally, or just someone seeking connection and support, you are welcome here.
What to Expect at a PFLAG Stillwater Meeting
Our Monthly Social & Support Meetings are casual and welcoming gatherings held in a safe, affirming space. We come together to share stories, ask questions, listen, learn, and build community. You’ll find a mix of LGBTQ+ individuals, parents, allies, and friends of all ages. There’s no pressure to speak, just being present is enough, and yes, there are snacks!
We meet on the first Thursday of every month (unless noted below) from 7:00–9:00 PM at Salem Lutheran Church
(Note: We are not affiliated with the church; they kindly let us use their space).
PFLAG Membership
While you don’t need to be a member to attend any of our meetings or events, membership is a meaningful way to support our mission. Annual dues help us stay affiliated with PFLAG National, access valuable resources, and fund our monthly meetings and special events like our Pride Picnic, Transgender Day of Remembrance, our Christmas Parade float, and more! To become a member, click the link at the top of the page!
Join Us
Whether you’re coming for support, community, or curiosity, we hope you’ll stop by and see what we’re all about. Check out our upcoming meetings and events below!
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March Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CST312026
Beads 'N Buttons with OSQ&A
Join us for a special joint meeting on Transgender Day of Visibility with Oklahoma State Queers & Allies - the student LGBTQ+ organization at Oklahoma State University. Bring your crafting supplies! Note, this event will take the place of our regular April Social & Support meeting.
Location
Willard Hall
Willard Hall Whitehurst Ln
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
6:00pm–8:00pm CDT252026
Pride Picnic
Celebrate Pride at PFLAG's Pride Picnic! Bring your family and friends, and come connect with LGBTQ+ individuals, families, and allies as we build community and celebrate Pride together.
Location
Boomer Lake Pavilion #2
Boomer Lake West Side by the Splash Pad
Stillwater, OK 74075
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Time
11:00am–3:00pm CDT72026
May Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CDT42026
June Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CDT62026
August Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting! We'll be getting ready for our annual campus outreach event, Lights on Stillwater.
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CDT32026
September Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Welcome back OSU Students! Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CDT12026
October Monthly Social & Support Meeting
Join us for our Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CDT52026
November Annual Chapter Business Meeting & Board Elections
At this special meeting, we'll be providing our Annual Report and conducting our Chapter's Board Elections. Afterwards, join us for our regular Monthly Social & Support Meeting!
Location
Salem Lutheran Church
(Enter from the East side of the building)
101 S Duck St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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Time
7:00pm–9:00pm CST32026
City of Stillwater Holiday Parade of Lights
March with us in the annual City of Stillwater Holiday Parade of Lights! Bring your Pride Flags and Holiday Cheer! After the parade, warm up with some hot cocoa and cookies at our after-party at WorkIt on the corner of Duck and Main.
Location
Downtown Stillwater
901 S Main St
Stillwater, OK 74074
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